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	<title>JP Danna's Blog &#187; defensive behavior</title>
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	<description>Author of The Narrow Gate: A Journey Through Identity, Belief and Perception</description>
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		<title>Resistance vs Allowing</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 14:58:53 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[defensive behavior]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[resistance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[what we resist persists]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[There have been times when I&#8217;ve felt threatened and exhibited defensive behavior whenever someone directed his or her opposing thoughts toward me…especially when it had to do with spirituality. I humbled myself and took a good look at this. I noticed when folks around me were adamant that I should believe the way they do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There have been times when I&#8217;ve felt threatened and exhibited <strong>defensive behavior</strong> whenever someone directed his or her opposing thoughts toward me…especially when it had to do with spirituality. I humbled myself and took a good look at this. I noticed when folks around me were adamant that I should believe the way they do that I felt a need to &#8220;prove my point&#8221;.  Rather than allowing people their beliefs, I felt like they wanted to control me; be it with fear or an &#8220;or else&#8221; attitude about God. I was not allowing. I was in a state of<strong> resistance</strong>. But as I looked closer still, I had to face the fact that although I believed these people <strong>resisted</strong> my way of thinking that it was really me who was caught in a form of <strong>resistance</strong> to them. I needed to stand in the light of my own truth and allow others to think what they wanted to. I am no longer affected. The <strong>resistance</strong> is gone and I&#8217;ve stepped into surrender. Not to anyone&#8217;s opposing beliefs, but to the peace of my own.</p>
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